Okay. Let me start off by saying that I’ve never had the opportunity to be comfortable with who I am and my sexuality outside of about four or five friends.
It was a toss up. You don’t know who’s LGBTQ. You don’t even know who doesn’t care if you’re LGBTQ. I didn’t know anyone else gay besides me until my junior or sophomore year of high school. The only other person that I knew was gay, I watched him get kicked out of school for being gay. Which didn’t help matters at all.
Now skip ahead four/five years.
Now I’m at a school where they have a very large and supportive LGBTQ group. Not only are they supportive but they give me great opportunities to better myself and learn more about things that relate to my community.
I learned how to properly write my resume and interview when it comes to being hired and coming from an LGBTQ background. I learned about federal laws and rights that I didn’t know I had from the keynote speaker (who just happens to be the EEOC Commissioner). I learned about ways to network within the community. I learned how to go beyond and reach out to the outside community to teach them about the LGBTQ community. I met and became friends with this amazing transman. He’s doing some really cool things with his life like drawing his own web comic about being a Trans male while he’s getting his Master’s degree.
They had gender neutral bathrooms for all of us to use. There were deaf LGBTQ people and their LGBTQ interpreters. There were people from Japan, New Zealand, Chicago, Florida, New York, and New Orleans. There were Asian, Latino, African America, Caucasian, and Biracial people. There were men, women, transgendered, and transsexual. There were lesbians, gays, bisexuals…it was just the most diverse group of people I’ve ever seen.
I was almost in tears by the end of it all because I was so comfortable just…being me. I was comfortable within a job field atmosphere and it was just the most amazing thing that’s ever happened to me by far.
Pictures to follow up next!