Plaid Ponderings: Thoughts of a Lezz

My name is Jay the gay. Technically it's just Jay. But rhymes are the shit so whatever. I love plaid. I likes to cuddle. Gay Lady since birth. These are my pondering thoughts and from a day to day basis. More to follow.

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ducksinthehat:

kurenai24:

ducksinthehat:

kyssthis16:

Dear Glee Fandom, 
Do you see this man? His name is Wentworth Miller. He also happens to be Black. SURPRISE, MOTHAFUCKAS!!!!!! Yes, I know the blue-ish eyes are throwing you off. The light skin? Yeah, understandable. But please note, Black people range in skintone more than you will ever know. Oh, Naya Rivera? Also Black! AHAHAHHAHAHA 


A little… bit of a stretch here? Excuse me if I am being an ignorant fuckass here, but I don’t think having a parent who is one quarter African-American like Miller makes you black. Naya is half Puerto Rican, quarter African and quarter German. Does the quarter German means I can tell she is Caucasian? Because I wouldn’t say that.Like I said, maybe I am being an ignorant fuck here, but I call those two Beautiful Examples of Multiracial Origin, certainly not black or white. (And specifically, I refer to Naya as latina because that’s how she refers to herself.)

His mother is white and his father is black. There is no quarter part at all. Yes he is biracial but half of his make up is black which mean he is black. There is no other way to coat it.
Naya Rivera, one of her parents are white and the other is half black and half latino, which mean she is a black latino. There is no other way to coat it.
And I wish people would stop saying quarter German or quarter Jewish like that explains someone’s white race b/c there are black Jewish people and black Germans out there and stating that their a quarter German is just saying what their nationality/culture is and not what their racial make up is.
So yes you did come across as ignorant fuckass.

Sorry about this ignorant fuckass, Wikipedia must have lied to me:Miller is of multiracial origin: his father is of African-American, Jamaican, English and German background, and his mother is of French, Dutch, Syrian and Lebanese ancestry.Rivera is of half Puerto Rican, quarter African, and quarter German descent.
I know this is a touchy subject and stuff, and not to rise any controversy, but I just don’t know how it is possible to take a man with African-American, Jamaican, English, German, French, Dutch, Syrian and Lebanese blood and say he is black. With so many different origins, that other people should pick one and get it in the front seems a little… weird to me. Unless, of course, he identifies as such, in that case I will call him, or anyone, whatever they feel they are.

Okay. Let me just say this right here.
In the black community, it is so fucking rare to have a visible gay person representing us in the media. Whether it be character or an actual LGBTQ black person, they’re never on my screen.
I got so damn excited when they showed us that picture in season one and Rachel had a gay black man as her father. Because dammit somewhere there is a gay black boy out there who doesn’t have any role models. He doesn’t have anyone on the screen that looks like him. How is he supposed to think that he can have a chance at happiness if there isn’t a single damn example of it on television? The only black gay person I ever knew when I was growing up, was RuPaul. The only reason I even knew of RuPaul is because he was in that movie with Tyra Banks and Lindsey Lohan. And he was in drag in that movie. It’s not that I don’t love me some RuPaul because he is fierce. But it’s the fact that the stereotype that all gay men just like to dress up as women, is getting old. 
I’m so disappointed in the way that they selected this character change. I wanted to see a black actor playing a happily married black gay man. A man that had a stable job, a loving husband, and a daughter he loved. A man whose character managed to still be happy in a small fucking town with ignorant people. 
But no. We get another white gay couple who have a white daughter.
Maybe I’m over the top with this. But you know what oh well. 
This is why I’m pissed off. To Ryan Murphy and other people, maybe it wasn’t a big deal.
But to me, it’s a big fucking deal.

ducksinthehat:

kurenai24:

ducksinthehat:

kyssthis16:

Dear Glee Fandom, 

Do you see this man? His name is Wentworth Miller. He also happens to be Black. SURPRISE, MOTHAFUCKAS!!!!!! Yes, I know the blue-ish eyes are throwing you off. The light skin? Yeah, understandable. But please note, Black people range in skintone more than you will ever know. Oh, Naya Rivera? Also Black! AHAHAHHAHAHA 

A little… bit of a stretch here? Excuse me if I am being an ignorant fuckass here, but I don’t think having a parent who is one quarter African-American like Miller makes you black. Naya is half Puerto Rican, quarter African and quarter German. Does the quarter German means I can tell she is Caucasian? Because I wouldn’t say that.

Like I said, maybe I am being an ignorant fuck here, but I call those two Beautiful Examples of Multiracial Origin, certainly not black or white. (And specifically, I refer to Naya as latina because that’s how she refers to herself.)

His mother is white and his father is black. There is no quarter part at all. Yes he is biracial but half of his make up is black which mean he is black. There is no other way to coat it.

Naya Rivera, one of her parents are white and the other is half black and half latino, which mean she is a black latino. There is no other way to coat it.

And I wish people would stop saying quarter German or quarter Jewish like that explains someone’s white race b/c there are black Jewish people and black Germans out there and stating that their a quarter German is just saying what their nationality/culture is and not what their racial make up is.

So yes you did come across as ignorant fuckass.

Sorry about this ignorant fuckass, Wikipedia must have lied to me:

Miller is of multiracial origin: his father is of African-American, Jamaican, English and German background, and his mother is of French, Dutch, Syrian and Lebanese ancestry.

Rivera is of half Puerto Rican, quarter African, and quarter German descent.

I know this is a touchy subject and stuff, and not to rise any controversy, but I just don’t know how it is possible to take a man with African-American, Jamaican, English, German, French, Dutch, Syrian and Lebanese blood and say he is black. With so many different origins, that other people should pick one and get it in the front seems a little… weird to me. Unless, of course, he identifies as such, in that case I will call him, or anyone, whatever they feel they are.

Okay. Let me just say this right here.

In the black community, it is so fucking rare to have a visible gay person representing us in the media. Whether it be character or an actual LGBTQ black person, they’re never on my screen.

I got so damn excited when they showed us that picture in season one and Rachel had a gay black man as her father. Because dammit somewhere there is a gay black boy out there who doesn’t have any role models. He doesn’t have anyone on the screen that looks like him. How is he supposed to think that he can have a chance at happiness if there isn’t a single damn example of it on television? The only black gay person I ever knew when I was growing up, was RuPaul. The only reason I even knew of RuPaul is because he was in that movie with Tyra Banks and Lindsey Lohan. And he was in drag in that movie. It’s not that I don’t love me some RuPaul because he is fierce. But it’s the fact that the stereotype that all gay men just like to dress up as women, is getting old. 

I’m so disappointed in the way that they selected this character change. I wanted to see a black actor playing a happily married black gay man. A man that had a stable job, a loving husband, and a daughter he loved. A man whose character managed to still be happy in a small fucking town with ignorant people. 

But no. We get another white gay couple who have a white daughter.

Maybe I’m over the top with this. But you know what oh well. 

This is why I’m pissed off. To Ryan Murphy and other people, maybe it wasn’t a big deal.

But to me, it’s a big fucking deal.

I’m not talking about getting a break for myself.

I’m talking about a break for my mother that’s gone back to school even though she can’t afford it so she can stop working two jobs and can get another job that will appreciate her. 

I’m talking about a break for my dad who’s worked the graveyard shift for the past 15 years only to be laid off from work despite the fact that he’s a hard and fast worker that was capable of being promoted and leading others in half the time that others were.

I’m so damn tired of people thinking that I just want a hand out.

I don’t want a fucking hand out. 

What I want is a solution to a system that makes it possible for my parents to not be bone tired with every breath they take.

Is that too much to ask for?

theponderingplaidlezz:

I was old enough to grasp the concept of the events of 9/11 when they happened.

I was old enough to know that “people who hate America crashed planes on purpose into the buildings to hurt Americans”.

I was also old enough to know that people died doing brave things like trying to rescue people who were trapped in the debris.

Now here’s what I take from it all.

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Reblogging myself. Just to say that I still feel the same. 

PS. RIP once again to all of the fallen and the innocent lives that have been lost as a result of the events that took place after this tragic day. 

cobracunt:

dognamedjesus:

evanescenceobsession:

fyeahevanescence:

Amy Lee has been around longer than her and is definitely more original. Not only with style, but with her music. I’ve never heard anything like it. But all of Lady Gaga’s music sounds like everything else on the radio. There’s nothing original about it. 

  Who can be more original than Amy Lee?

This

I don’t agree with any of this. (well besides the “never heard anything like amy’s music,” because i really haven’t heard anything that has affected me like that. not saying gaga isn’t ~original~ though)

Not that it matters.

I love ‘em both.

I listen to both, but. What.

Okay. What the fuck. 

Why can’t people just say….Oh they’re both talented women. They’re both original in their own way and they both make amazing music. 

I hate this shit when someone just compares an artist they like to Gaga and say “I hate Gaga because she’s not as original as_____. _______ deserves the awards that Gaga’s been given.”

I like Lady Gaga. I don’t like all of her songs. To be honest I like the earlier stuff she did and I like the acoustic/live versions of some of her songs over the over synthesized stuff that is in most of her songs.

Why don’t you complain about the other artists that have dominated the music industry? Why don’t you complain about Justin Bieber, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, or Ke$ha?! Because to me all of their shit sounds the exact same. Hell you can take a Katy Perry song and loop it over a Ke$ha song and it is the exact same. So when it comes to originality. Yeah I think that Gaga is original. Because I hear her shit and I don’t hear it in someone else’s work. 

I don’t think Gaga walks on water. I don’t think Gaga is the musical savior for gay people.

But you know what originality is overrated in this generation. It’s hard to find someone who doesn’t sample an older generation’s work. All the great original artists (Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson, Otis Redding, James Brown, Aretha Franklin) have had their time. Ask any musical artist today and they’ll tell you who influenced their work. 

This entire generation is a revamp/remix of the older generation.

Accept it. Get over it.

Stop fighting over who’s more original and enjoy your music.

I was old enough to grasp the concept of the events of 9/11 when they happened.

I was old enough to know that “people who hate America crashed planes on purpose into the buildings to hurt Americans”.

I was also old enough to know that people died doing brave things like trying to rescue people who were trapped in the debris.

Now here’s what I take from it all.

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No seriously. They do. 

I don’t know who the hell decided to just pop up all of a sudden and bring all of this shit back that had died down years ago, but they did. I’m all for free speech and educating others on things they were oblivious to. But I’m over this shit. 

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/yblog_theticket/20110308/ts_yblog_theticket/ahead-of-the-2012-campaign-states-debate-voting-rights

don't know if you saw this but I thought you might be interested in spreading the word about this crazy mess
theponderingplaidlezz theponderingplaidlezz Said:

I did see this! Ohemgee. I can’t believe I’m just now answering this.

But yes. This is crazy mess bullshit. I love that they’re wanting to raise the age you have to be to vote because they’re, the GOP, are afraid that the youth will vote “liberal because that’s what the youth do”. Uhm. Not down here it isn’t.

We have just as many, if not more, dumb fucks voting just because Mommy and Daddy told them that the scary democrats/liberals want to take away all of their hard earned money. So fuck that. 

I hate it when people tell me that just because I’m young I don’t know what’s going on in politics. I can’t tell you how pissed I was during the Election of ‘08 because people thought I voted for Obama just because he was black. Uhm. No. I was really on the line for the LONGEST time and didn’t make a decision for a while between him and Hilary Clinton. Because had he not been a candidate I would have voted for her. 

If they’re going to restrict people from voting because they just “go with the flow of the times” then they should restrict every fucking person from voting. Because how many people voted for Obama just because he wasn’t George Bush? How many people voted for McCain just because he wasn’t the black guy or the woman? How many people voted for anyone just because their spouse told them who to vote for? How many people voted for someone just because they weren’t paying attention and they just picked the side they usually vote for in the past without listening to the debates, the person’s answers on significant issues, or anything?

To limit the youth from using their right to vote is bullshit and it’s against the constitution. If you’re going to take away their right to vote at 18 then you better take away all the other fucking stuff that happens when you’re 18. You better raise the age for when people can join the military. You better differentiate the way they are taxed. You better change the way their healthcare is seen(which is an entire different fucking argument).

The problem is that the GOP has yet to appeal to the youth in a strategic way or has yet to look out for the needs of the voting youth. That’s why Obama kicked McCain’s ass for the popular youth vote. Not because he was the “cool new young black guy” . But because when they had one of their key debates, Obama said up front that he was going to actually do something with college education. He said he as going to do something about students and insurance. McCain didn’t say shit. He didn’t mention anything about the youth at ALL. Now all of a sudden the GOP cares about the youth/the average college student because of the healthcare reform. They “don’t want the youth of tomorrow to pay for the healthcare bill of today.” Which is bullshit. How about those fucking wars we’re already having to pay for? Didn’t give a shit about us paying for them did you, GOP? No. You didn’t.

Needless to say. I’m pissed. But then again I’m always pissed at the GOP at their bullshit ideas to “help the country”. Because it usually revolves around how much money they’re going to lose and where they’re going to lose it.

Which is disgusting.

Who knew it’d be a ranting kind of day when I woke up?

Not me.

I’ve already chewed out four people on Facebook.

Well alright then.

junkwhore:

coffeecigarettesandhormones:

1. That’s just fucking insensitive. 

2. You guys can’t move on from Pearl Harbor? Have you forgotten how America retaliated? ATOMIC BOMBS. Two places, Hiroshima and Nagasaki. Civilians died, and for decades suffered radiation effects. Pearl Harbor is a military base. See the difference, weigh the casualties. Even Robert McNamara questioned the morality of America’s actions against Japan was commensurate to what Japan has done against the US. 

3. Have you forgotten World Trade Center? Hurricane Katrina? How would you feel if people said the same thing, because let’s not forget Agent Orange in Vietnam, or the number of times the American government sponsored coup attempts in Latin America, or supported dictatorships. 

4. Don’t fucking abuse Hindu beliefs and throw around the concept of Karma as if you know it. 

5. The people who were involved in WWII are dead. These Japanese people who are affected by the quake and tsunami are the generations that pay taxes to the government. In effect, the same people who contribute so much to the United Nations, through aid and what not. The same people who gave their unequivocal support to the United States when the WTC attack happened. And you think they deserve this? 

THANK YOU. God, the insensitivity and lack of compassion from people just sickens me.

I just love when people try to prove their intelligence by demeaning and saying a country deserves something because of a few things they did YEARS ago. If you do that and I read it, I’m just going to think you’re a fucking asshole and a piece of shit.

I hate people who try to make America the “holier than thou” country. We’ve done our fair share of horrible things. But of course we’re America and when it happens to us it’s a tragedy. If it happens to other countries it’s because they did something horrible to America. That’s bullshit. 

We’ve done some shit. But that average American doesn’t know about our shit. But then again even if we did show the average American about our shit, they’d brush it off and say it was a “necessary sacrifice for the good of the country”. Examples, torturing people in war, testing diseases on citizens or non-citizens of this country, cutting back on safety precautions and requirements to save a few dollars which would possibly expose millions to poisons or dangerous items, shooting and killing innocent bystanders in the Middle East, and most important of all, ignoring the fact that people are dying and being abused by their leaders until we can’t ignore them anymore.

So yeah. Don’t come to me and say that a country or people deserve a tragic event because of things they’ve done. Because if that were true, America would be blown the fuck up.

Just sayin’.

(via cobracunt)

I love the people on my Facebook complaining about the price of gas. 

They’re staging “No Gas Days” and boycotting gas stations. 

They’re saying bullshit like, “It’s totally Obama’s fault…” or “The fucking terrorists are screwing with our oil. We should just nuke the whole place.”

I can’t even begin to understand the kind of logic they have. 

First of all it’s because of all the shit that’s happening in the countries that we buy oil from. By shit I mean the revolts and the overthrowing of certain dictatorships. These people have been ignored and passed over for YEARS because all anyone cares about is their fucking gas money. That’s why it’s all over the news assholes. All you care about is the price of your gas? Yeah sure. It’s shitty. But there are people getting gunned down in the streets. Women getting sexually assaulted. This shit is WAY bigger than the price of gas money. 

Second of all you can’t fucking blame everything on President Obama. He can only do so much as to cut ally ties with the countries who are violating ethic and human rights codes. He can turn down the chance to aid the people in power. But that’s it. He has no real jurisdiction in these areas. Unless you want to start another horrible excuse of a “war” by going in and forcing an American democracy onto another nation, then I suggest you shut up. 

I’m so tired of ignorant people looking for easy things to blame. I’m so tired of ignorant people not looking at the bigger picture. I’m so tired of ignorant people thinking selfishly about their petty issues and not thinking about the people that are being denied their rights to basically live safely in their own country.

Recording first podcast.

Wish me luck, seeing as how I really want to do this but have no idea what I’m doing.

Hahaha

Should be great.

taniada:

[TRIGGER WARNING for discussion of sexual assault, rape culture, etc.]

theriotmag:

Now, I don’t expect any kind of breakthrough message or anything from the Vans Warped Tour, believe me.  I mean, it’s a corporate sponsored tour and really, what can we expect from it?

But at the same time, I’ve covered this tour for media outlets the past few years, and I know for many young women it’s how they’re introduced to the idea of “punk” and at least the appearance of activism.  It’s a gateway, or at least it could be.

Yet this year, the Vans Warped Tour has made something glaringly clear: girls in bands are not welcome. 

But rapists are.

The current band line-up features ONE female-fronted band, the rock group New Years Day, and NO all female bands.  While in the past female representation on the tour hasn’t been all THAT impressive (in recent years their nods towards inclusiveness have included Katy Perry and the Millionaires) but there was at least SOME chance that a girl at a show could look up onstage and see another girl making music, fronting a band and getting her feelings out.  There was at least some visibility of women making music reaching the teenagers who flock to the shows.

And this year, apparently, they only have one chance to see that.  But don’t worry, they have an equally good chance to see a band fronted by someone who has been repeated accused of fucking his underaged fans.

Blood on the Dancefloor frontman Dahvie Vanity was arrested while on tour in 2009 for the rape and sexual assault of a 15-year-old girl.  While he, his people and his devoted fans have, naturally, denied this, there have continued to be allegations of not only THIS case being true, but of Dahvie repeatedly taking advantage of underaged girls while on tour.  One of these cases involved AN 11-YEAR-OLD GIRL.

Even if Dahvie manages to NOT rape someone on this tour, the fans will still be subjected to Blood on the Dancefloor’s music.  A sampling of their lyrics:

Got a monster in my pants.
And if you ever get the chance.
Gunna cram it down your throat.
Watch you gasp for air and choke.
I’m gunna jizz all in your face.
I’m gunna wreck this fuckin place.
Pull my hair, smash the chair.
Break the bed and give me head.

-from “Scream for My Ice Cream”

Bitches get stitches, they end up in ditches, so get the riches
Bitches get stitches end up in ditches, get the riches

-from “Bitches Get Stitches”

I’m such a killer fuck, you’re just a B-rated slut
I’m sharp like Jason’s machete, I’ll slice you into spaghetti
You’re such a cold hearted bitch,
They’ll find you chopped up dead in a ditch
Pin you over your grave, be my zombie sex slave

-from “Sluts Get Guts”

…lovely.

So we get it, Warped Tour.  Boys make music, girls suck cock…or else.  Fuck you.

Okay. I’m about to go full rant.

WHAT…..the….FUCK?!?!

First of all. If this asshole wasn’t on a tour, didn’t have fans, and I hate to say it, was a minority, his fucking ass would’ve been way long persecuted by now.

He’d be in jail. He’d have no money. He wouldn’t even fucking be on tour if he wasn’t some asshole with a fucking record. I’m fucking tired of “celebrities” getting a pass on whatever the fuck they feel like. Because it’s a fucking crime if you’re not a celebrity and it’s an “unfortunate incident” or an “accusation” if you are. 

No that’s fucking bullshit. I’m going to start this new thing, where every time someone famous loses their shit and does something fucked up and compare it to a nobody John/Jane Doe and put up their charges.

Second of all. I’m not going to blame the victim, I would never do that. But what I AM going to do is ask the question, “Parental/Guardian figure, what the fuck were you doing LETTING your underage daughter go to this fucking event?!” If you’ve heard that someone is being “accused” of sexual assault and raping underage girls, WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SUPPORT THIS?! WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR CHILD MALE OR FEMALE TO GO TO THIS CONCERT AND SUPPORT THIS BAND?! Also, did you look at the fucking lyrics to the songs they’re “performing”?! They’re fucking degrading and disgusting. Period. There’s no subliminal message that your child can learn from if they really take a look at the lyrics. No there’s just “your daughter’s a bitch and I’m going to shove my cock down her throat because that’s all she’s good for”. Why don’t you become an actual fucking parent and do your fucking job?! Look at the fucking roster before you by the fucking ticket. See who you’re exposing your child to. If you approve of the message, by damn ticket. If you don’t then don’t buy your child the fucking ticket.

Lastly. The fact that this shit doesn’t even seem to surprise me, tells you how fucked up our judicial system has become. I’m fucking disgusted by the way our society views women. Really I am. “Redefining Rape”. Taking away funding for Planned Parenting. Allowing a “pass” for any politician, celebrity, RELIGIOUS LEADER, or public figure for their violent or degrading acts against women. Allowing people to attack and blame the victim in an assault case. “Well she really didn’t belong over there…it’s a man’s job”. BULLSHIT. If a man got attacked, they’d start another fucking war because apparently that’s a threat against our country. GOD forbid we lose our shit if a woman gets assaulted.

It’s the price of being a woman in a man’s world”.

THE FUCK?!

HOW ABOUT THE MEN GET PERSECUTED FOR THE BULLSHIT THEY DO.

HOW ABOUT THE MEN STOP ASSAULTING THE WOMEN.

HOW ABOUT WE RAISE OUR SONS TO KNOW THAT TREATING A WOMAN LESS THAN A MAN IS WRONG.

HOW ABOUT WE RAISE OUR BOYS TO UNDERSTAND THAT VIOLENCE AGAINST A WOMAN IS UNACCEPTABLE.

FUCK THIS sexist society and all the rules that I’m supposed to abide by because I have a fucking uterus. 

(via bubonickitten)

So I’ve officially gone on strike at my house.

I refuse to cook dinner or clean the kitchen.

Why? Because I have to cook twice a day and then clean it three times a day.

Morgan does her chore once a month. Or she’ll do it half-ass if she wants to go somewhere.

So yeah I’m done with that bullshit.

I’m done with being interrupted while I’m studying and being told I have to wipe down the countertops again. 

Or I have to fix something ELSE for Morgan to eat. 

Or I have to clean out the microwave because Morgan spilled something inside and didn’t clean it up.

OR I HAVE TO COME AND PICK UP THE FUCKING DISHES MY MOM AND MORGAN LEFT ALL OVER THE FUCKING HOUSE AND PUT THEM IN THE DISHWASHER.

I’m not the fucking maid.

Deal with it.

When I say comparing Emma Watson to other females in our entertainment industry.

I don’t mean judging the other women based on the choices they make or their appearances. 

I mean how adorkable I find her when compared to those other females.

Kim Kardashian’s like “Yes…these are my boobs. They’re huge and I don’t give a fuck so I’m going to do whatever I want with them and that includes sharing them to the world.”

Katy Perry without make up? Yeah I don’t like her because she’s a hypocritical asshole who I believe, only uses the gay community to further her career. Her loyalty to us means shit to me because she says shit but doesn’t back it up. So yeah. Fuck her in and out of makeup.

Miley Cyrus being a pot head stripper? I don’t give a fuck. She’s 18. She can do whatever the hell she wants. If she wants to grind on her friends? Why the fuck should I care? If she wants to get high? Who gives a shit? People get high every day. Some of the people that I follow and follow me, get high every day! I don’t give a fuck.

But then I look at Emma and she’s all being topless was awkward. Kissing this guy I’ve known for years was awkward. She’s fucking adorable in her interviews. Like when she whispered ‘condom’ to David Letterman? I about died. That was hilarious. She’s funny. I think she’s adorable and that’s all the fuck I’m saying.

I’m not on a “slut” bashing non-make up wearing sexually active hating spree. 

I’m on a Emma Watson is the most adorable actress we have out there spree.

Jesus fucking Christ.